Understanding how to Master the Thai “Wai” Greeting like a Thai

The Thai wai is a traditional greeting, considered a sign of respect and politeness. During the Covid Pandemic, the Wai was also considered the most hygienic greeting. Here are some rules to follow:

Thai Wai

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1. When to wai:

  • Meeting someone: When you meet someone for the first time, it’s appropriate to wai.
  • Taking leave: When you’re leaving someone, you should wai as a farewell.
  • Expressing gratitude: You can also wai to express gratitude or appreciation.
  • Showing respect: Waiing is a way to show respect to elders, authority figures, or people you admire.

2. How to wai:

  • Hand position: Place your palms together in front of your chest, slightly below your chin.
  • Bow: Bow slightly, keeping your head down. The height of your bow depends on the person you’re greeting. A deeper bow is a sign of greater respect.
  • Eye contact: Maintain eye contact with the person you’re greeting.

3. Cultural considerations:

  • *Age and social status: The height of your bow and the duration of the wai can vary depending on the age and social status of the person you’re greeting.
  • Context: The wai is not always appropriate in all situations. For example, it might not be appropriate in a casual setting with friends or family.
  • Regional variations: There may be slight regional variations in the way the wai is performed.

*The height of your wai in Thailand can vary depending on the person you’re greeting and the context of the situation. Here are some general guidelines:

  • For people of equal or lower status: A slight bow is sufficient.
  • For people of higher status or elders: A deeper bow is appropriate. You may also want to raise your palms higher.
  • For royalty or very important figures: A very deep bow, almost to the ground, is customary.

It’s important to note that these are general guidelines, and the specific height of your wai may vary depending on regional customs and personal preferences.

Additionally, the duration of the wai can also vary. A longer wai may indicate a deeper level of respect or gratitude.

Remember: The wai is a gesture of respect, so it’s important to use it appropriately and sincerely.